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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/sonataflux on 2023-08-05 19:24:05.
No, I do not regret exposing a cheating married man to his wife. I don’t even regret posting about it here. I just knew that as the post gained traction as quickly as it did, the men who frequent this sub as a means to find women to harrass would only find themselves in the comments, and in my DM’s. Which did happen. You guys are extremely predictable. Most people understood why I did it. Many were even women themselves who were cheated on for years and wished they had someone like me in their situation. I was already steadfast in my choice, and that just affirmed it even more.
Yes, it was him. No, it wasn’t a catfish. His account now is gone completely as I imagine his wife immediately confronted him. Whatever happens with them I will never know, but I can only hope she has decided to use this information to make adjustments in her life that benefit her. Every day “normal” men are capable of this behavior. On the surface even if they as a couple appear happy, wealthy, accomplished (as this couple was), people still have the potential to act selfishly and with a poor moral compass. They will still hurt the person they are meant to love the most because deep down they are just a bad person.
I have always told myself, my priority is women. I do not feel bad if a man read my frustration and anger in my post and their first reaction was to run to the defense of men as a whole. If that’s the hill you chose to die on, I know exactly what kind of person you are. Having your approval is not something I desire.