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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/sonataflux on 2023-08-05 03:45:43.
I just feel awful.
Not for him. I don’t give a FUCK about him. I feel awful for his beautiful wife.
A married man approached me on reddit because I posted (as a lonely, single woman) to an r4r subreddit and he openly told me he is trying to cheat on his wife, because of a “sexless marriage”. He was even stupid enough to include a picture of his face. I was too enraged to reply and tell him off, but I took screenshots of everything. His account was just multiple posts of him on various NSFW subreddits saying he wants to cheat on his wife.
I just got so angry that I felt I needed to do something. Me and another woman found out his identity, as well as his wife’s, and I sent her SIX screenshots of his behavior on reddit. For months and months he was doing this.
And now I’m just…crying? Because I am so hurt for her. I’m so lonely because I am scared of men like him. My dad was a man like him. My trust issues are so fucking bad and this made them worse. I know she’s out there somewhere hurting because she knows now what he does. I’ve been so disgusted with dating for so long and this really feels like a nail in the coffin for me. I don’t know how I could ever open myself up to someone and risk this kind of betrayal and disrespect.
Something inside me is so osbscenely angry at men and the world that I want to scream.
JUST…WHY???