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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/jaysmooth009 on 2023-08-04 20:02:34.

So my GF has two cats. One of these cats are extremely affectionate towards her and she reciprocates the energy. For example: she has this routine when she gets out of the shower, the cat is sitting in the toilet seat and wants to snuggle and lick water off of her body.

So, this morning we wake up from a long night of drinking and conversation and I see that the cat is laying on her chest purring loudly. No big deal as the cat typically lays on her chest when he gets the opportunity. But here’s where it gets uncomfortable for me. As the cat is laying on her chest I hear a loud buzzing and feel vibrations. At first I think one of us is getting a call then I realize she’s turned on her vibrator and is going to town with me laying next to her not touching and this cat square in her chest doing this heavy purring.

In that moment I ask her if her sexuality extends to animals and she LOSES it. At this point I ask her if she remembers seeing pictures of my son and I when he was but a few weeks old sleeping on my chest, she says yes, so I then ask if she’d think it odd if I began masturbating myself at that moment. She thought it would be EXTREMELY INAPPROPRIATE. I agreed. But I asked her if this was what is acceptable in front of me, than what does she do when I’m not there?.

Now there’s a hole in her wall. Am I the asshole?