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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/FoldSome4995 on 2023-08-04 15:26:49.
I recently went out with some friends, four guys and six girls, my girlfriend being one of them. All the guys were hesitant to go clubbing because we knew it would be expensive and how this specific club treats guys but my girl and the others convinced us otherwise. When we got there they told us to be let in with the girls we had to spend 400$ on a table and a bottle or we wouldn’t be allowed in, this is after all the girls went in. Of course we said no and dipped and when i texted my girl if they were leaving she said no that they’re staying. Some more context to this is that she is traveling soon and this is our last night together where she convinced me to go to this thing, wasted my money, and then let me uber home at 11 while she went clubbing with her friends when it was supposed to be our night. We have also talked about situations like this and she said ofc she would leave with me if anything like this ever happened. Am i the asshole for expecting her to leave right away when i texted her we weren’t going to be allowed in? Or am i being dramatic and crazy?