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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/throwra-hgsgsadf on 2023-08-04 16:31:21.
My husband and I got a pair of lovense toys last valentine’s day as a gift to treat ourselves. It’s been great using them at home and in public. >_>
My husband has been working from home more lately this summer and he keeps his office closed, I always assumed it was because he doesn’t want the kids running around bothering him.
I found out a couple days ago that his lovense account has been making connections. I checked his phone and it showed that the same two people were using his lovense during work hours when he keeps his office closed. I brought this up with my husband and he said he met some friends in his MMO he plays and they been using it together.
I was furious and told him this is straight up cheating. He said its not and to think of it like some “bot” or “AI” controlling his toy. I said that was outright disrespectful and he’s flat out cheating. We haven’t slept in the same bed since and I took his lovense.
My husband is telling me to calm down and he won’t do it again. I legit don’t trust him and he has his friends and online MMO friends telling me now that he’s not cheating and it shouldn’t be considered cheating. They sent me pictures of his character with these cat girl looking characters doing sex acts and the toy syncs with it when they explained it. That just made me more furious and said any sane person would consider this cheating.
Am I going crazy or is what my husband doing considered not cheating and normal for MMOs?
He says he should be allowed back into the bedroom but I just don’t think it’s right because what he’s doing is cheating.