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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/FishCackledWanda on 2023-08-04 10:17:23.

I am 25yo. My current partner is my first and only sex partner, been together around the year.

Before him I was never really interested in exploring the inside of myself (plus I physically wasn’t able to).

But I noticed that he has a difficult time orgasming with me and I am hella worried that it’s because my vagina just isn’t good enough. Since he is my only partner ever, I don’t really have any other feedback on my vagina.

Yeah, I know I know. I’ve already tried telling myself the problem isn’t me etc, however upon exploring my own vagina when aroused I gotta keep wondering.

It just isn’t tight. Like, in some positions it just feels hollow. Like it will be snug around the finger for a few first centimetres but then it’s like a small baloon. I know tenting is normal when horny, but from what I figured for most women it tents more as they are close to finishing and not the whole time.

I feel like the moment I get horny and wet ( which is embarasingly fast with him) I just tent up and I am worried he just feels nothing when he’s inside. I can kegel it back together, however if I’m doing it all the time then I am not relaxed and enjoying myself.

He said my vagina is normal, however he never really compliments it besides saying how wet it is (which then makes me even more self conscious because I feel like there’s no pressure nor friction for him with me).

So I guess… tell me how y’all vaginas feel?😅