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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/MenuCreative3890 on 2023-08-03 19:02:58.
Okay so I’m aware this is gonna sound like the most privileged story on here but like try to get past that.
I(15F) am on a teen tour right now. Basically it’s like 30/40 teens and we get to go to these cool places and then we ride the bus every few days to our new location. On the first day they said they needed 5 people for luggage crew and that if you did it you’d get your own seat on the bus as well as some other perks. I volunteered and was the only girl chosen.
This morning we have a 3 hour drive. I loaded the luggage and put my stuff in my spot on the bus like normal. Then some people were having a hard time finding seats. This girl(who btw is extremely entitled and annoying) came up to me and asked if she could sit next to me. I just replied “I’m luggage crew sorry” she then said there were no other seats. I looked around and pointed out 3 different boys who were not on crew who had open seats next to them. She then said “but I can’t sit next to a boy.”
I asked why and she said it made her uncomfortable. I really wanted to call BS bc she’s been completely fine around boys this whole time and literally talks about her crushes all the time but i just told her to switch with someone who would sit next to a boy. One of the counselors heard this and said that I should just let her sit with me anyways. I said that it’s unfair that I signed up for crew just to get my own seat and now there are people with their own seat who aren’t even on crew. A girl near me who was sitting with a girl offered to switch seats and sit next to one of the boys.
I of course thanked her and apologized but it felt like her and the counselor were acting like I was completely unreasonable when I don’t think I was. Yeah maybe it would’ve been the nice thing to do but I don’t think it makes me and AH for not doing it. But idk what does Reddit think.