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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Swimming-Building-94 on 2023-08-03 15:02:02.
My ex-wife and I divorced when the last kid went to college, we were more roommates than anything but we stayed together for the kids to have two parents in the home. We were not bitter at all and I still have a really good relationship with her. It was more that the love died out but we still respected each-other a lot.
Now the divorce was a shock for the kids since they didn’t see anything wrong, we rarely argued and just had good communication skills. It was an easy divorce.
Now five years later I am remarried to the love of my life, all the kids were out of college and doing really well. The youngest just moved out and got a good job! The one problem is my daughter Sara has hated Cindy (new wife) the moment she met her. Cindy hasn’t done anything to any of the kids, she is my age and pretty polite all in all. All the other kids like her.
Now the problem, I have a family camp and invited all the kids to come up for a bonfire and food. Fun little get together, and everyone showed up. Sara made a face when she saw Cindy and asked what she is doing here. I told her for the bonfire since I am married to her. She called her a home wrecker and said I need to chose. I told her if she can’t accept I am married than it is best if she stays out of my life.
She called me asshole and left. The kids think it was a bit harsh but I am unsure.
Also yes me and ex wife have had multiple conversation with her, it didn’t work.