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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/prawncocktailquaver on 2023-08-03 08:22:55.
My boyfriend (23M) never seems to have any money only a week after payday. We live with his parents and are supposed to be saving for a house deposit, so there’s not masses to pay towards rent, bills, etc. I know that he likes to put some money on various bets and online casino games but he assured me that it’s not very much or very often. After a few months of him asking me for petrol money (I do not drive) only a week after payday, I confronted him about why he has no money. He couldn’t give me a straight answer so I asked to see his bank statements (as his frivolous spending is impacting our future). He said he wasn’t comfortable showing me them so I just put this to the back of my mind and tried to move on. The same thing happened for another few months so I (without his knowledge) checked his betting app to see that he has lost almost three months wages this year on various bets and online casino games. I brought this up to him and he said he was sorry and will delete his betting account. AITA?