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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Itsmiamiaa on 2023-08-03 03:54:54.
So, my husband and I both work full time. We have 2 kids, I work from home so I do most of the work with the kids. I’m also in school full time. Once I finish my degree I’ll be making a lot more than I do now and a lot more than him as well. My husband has started a small business & when he gets work he makes a decent check, however he can’t do a lot of work that’s offered to him because he doesn’t have all the equipment he needs. I suggested that he get a small business loan and just for it… he said he’s not doing that & he’s not going to put himself in debt and that he’ll just use the extra money I make once I’m done with college. I get that we’re married but I didn’t plan on funding his business that he, at this point, really puts little effort in to. He says he’s been supporting me all this time so I basically owe it to him, but I went back to work when my daughter was 1 (she turns 7 this year) & my income has gone to bills just as much as his has & I don’t make that much less than him. Am I wrong for this?