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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Radiant_Fail5438 on 2023-08-03 03:54:12.

For some reason my (F32) sister (23) and her fiance (25) decided that the very best way to celebrate before getting married was to have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. At strip clubs.

They also hired a bus limo for the evening.

The aftermath was, thus far, three breakups, four people dropping out of the wedding party, one impending divorce, and one arrest. The cleaning bill for the limo was more than the original rental fee also.

She was crying to our mom at dinner the other day and I snorted. I tried not to I honestly did. I was trying my best to just keep my mouth shut.

She asked me what was so funny. I said that I wasn’t sure what she expected to happen getting a group of people drunk, using illicit substances, and getting horned up watching exotic dancers.

She said that I was an asshole for judging her and her friends. I said I wasn’t judging just that literally anyone could have seen that outcome.

My mom told me to apologize because my sister is having to replace most of her wedding party on the fly.

I did. But I still think I’m right.

AITA?