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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ysmbl on 2023-08-02 15:30:35.
I saw the tiktok where the guy ‘jokes’ about saying a plethora of things including ‘Kegel exercises’ into his gf’s phone so she’ll get targeted advertisements. I can’t stop thinking about it.
It just seems like joking about vaginal tightness is a hell of a lot more acceptable than joking about penis size. And it’s fucking damaging.
With my very first boyfriend, almost all of the time I would clench during sex, and it just makes me sad. My mind had already been poisoned at a very young age by banter from misogynistic men around me who felt it was all in good fun to joke about how a women who’s been around would have a gaping vagina.
I just wish it would change. If I have to worry the entire time I’m having sex about being tight enough, I’m not going to enjoy it.