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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/The_amazing_cookie67 on 2023-08-02 11:55:37.

Hi, I just want help to understand if what happened to me was sexual harassment.

I am currently 15 and this happened to me years ago, before I hit puberty.

There is a relative of mine, let’s call him ‘A’. He is the son of my father’s cousin. Me and ‘A’ don’t really talk to each other much. He follows me on instagram and that’s pretty much it. Our last interaction was I think, a year ago. He’s nice I suppose. I think he’s about 25 years of age, I don’t remember, he is like 10 years older than me. He graduated college and he has a job now.

This happened when I was i guess about 6-7 age. I don’t really remember how old I was but all I remember was ‘A’ was probably a teen when the incident happened.

So, during vacations, ‘A’ and his family would usually visit our house, and vice versa. This was once such day-

It was morning, I entered the living room. ‘A’ was sitting on the couch, watching TV. I sat near him. We were having conversation and then suddenly, ‘A’ pulls down his pants down a bit, including his underwear. He told, motioning towards his penis “Look, it’s like a lollipop, you can touch it and suck it.”

I was very confused and he was insistent. I, however, did not suck it and walked away. Nothing else happened between us that day and I forgot it till few months back.

I haven’t told anyone, except for my sister, about this incident.

I feel very weird about this situation and I want to stop thinking about but I can’t.