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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Additional_Ad_8859 on 2023-08-02 06:25:18.
I’m pretty pissed off right now.
About 2 months ago, I (25f) started a new job in my dream industry and it’s been going very well. In my line of work, I often work with young people. I’ve received glowing reviews from the clients I’ve worked with so far! This has been such an exciting past few weeks and I’ve been keeping my family members updated on all the good news. Up until today, my parents have always been excited about my success and encouraged me to pursue this career. Today, I was talking to my dad (62m) about work when he said something that made my heart sink to my heels. Without missing a beat, he proudly asserted that my career working with young people will be “a great way to prepare yourself for motherhood.” I was absolutely stunned.
Don’t get me wrong, I love children and do actually want some of my own someday. However, I have made it clear time and time again to this man that my career IS my baby until I have both a PhD and a six figure salary! Frankly, I would pick the career over the baby if I had to choose…
It makes me so mad that people will still try to force ambitious & career-oriented women into motherhood roles, without even flinching! Especially a family member who should be the most invested in MY personal success and happiness. You don’t OWE the world a baby because you’re a woman! I’m SO SICK of this reproductive propaganda bullshit.