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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AITAthrow4auati on 2023-08-02 06:34:49.
My 24M i’m autistic so i don’t really understand social clues that well and what happened today got me thinking if i’m an AH.
My friend Jessica 26F is a reckless driver, about a 2weeks ago she got into a car accident with her sister and as a result her sister became paraplegic however Jessica is stable and didn’t suffer any consequences.
Today we were with a group of friends including Jessica talking about the regular checkup on cars and implementing safety measures to decrease the RTA.
And the topic of Jessica car accident popped up and she said something like it was meant to be and she’s really sad for her sister and to be honest i couldn’t hold the urge to say that it wasn’t meant to be if she regularly checked her tires her sister would be completely fine but because of her ignorance she got her sister paralyzed.
She started crying and everyone called me AH for being mean however i think i didn’t say something wrong? Especially the car accident was 95% avoidable if she checked her tire pressures