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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/poopdealer on 2023-08-02 01:01:47.
I am 20F and my mom is extremely religious and I’d even guess that she is a narcissist. I am moving in with my boyfriend (she thinks he is just a friend) and I told her yesterday. I’ve basically gotten the silent treatment ever since. Today she told me she thinks I’m making a very bad decision, she doesn’t know where she stands with me, and that the only reason I have a savings account is because of my parents. I have offered to pay for more of my things since I started working in high school. The answer was always a no. Then she went on to say “who are you going to cry to in the middle of the night when you get anxiety?” which is something I have literally never done to her because she has always been the root cause of my anxiety. Then she asked if I’ll keep going to church and said she’s worried about my salvation.
Then she said I have to tell my dad to his face. Okay, fine. This is very hard for me to do without feeling like a terrible person. I literally just cannot live here anymore. I have $8,000 dollars saved and my boyfriend has kindly offered to help me but that’s only if I need it. This is the most stressful situation of my life I just need it to be over already.