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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Lolafootsies on 2023-08-01 19:28:30.
So I recently finished university for the year and I finished late because I had to re-submit some things as I failed a module.
I have now passed which is probably the only reason why I am not more annoyed than I already am… but
Before i was told to resbmit i was working with this girl who I was sharing a lot of work with and we had a few group projects together so I thought my work was very similar to hers. When she passed and I didn’t I was a bit surprised and she recently told me that whenever she was alone with our tutor they had “sexual conversations” and this is why she thinks she didn’t fail the modules i failed at. Because he favourited her.
She didn’t say it in a mean way like she was rubbing it in my face or anything. When she told me I didn’t really want to ask anymore questions because I don’t know her that well so I just laughed it off. I also don’t know to what extent they were involved with each other so I don’t know if she felt pressured to do anything she didn’t want to do either.
We’re all adults here so of course people are free to do what they want but I would hate to know that the only reason she passed (she had very similar work to me) is because she had “sexual conversations” as she described with our tutor. And I would hate to know that she felt pressured to do anything either and I’m the only one who could speak out.
All I know is I have a strong suspicion our tutor marked her work up unfairly and he’s the one who is essentially going to pass or fail us for the year. I know I worked super hard on my work so it feels terrible knowing I had to re-submit because I didn’t lower myself to her standards. But at the same time I don’t know if I should have asked her any more questions to see if she needed any support.
I really don’t want to tell the university even though our tutor definitely is being unprofessional. I don’t want to ruin my relationship with this girl and I also may have the same tutor next year. It will be obvious it was me who told and nothing really changes if I don’t do anything. But I still don’t know if I’m doing the right thing and I don’t know what to do