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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/IndividualOk8644 on 2023-08-01 01:31:19.
Hi all. Long time listener, first time caller. I wasn’t sure where to post this, hope here is okay.
Honestly, thinking about my and my husband’s sex life lately, I can’t imagine doing this the rest of my life.
I was diagnosed with ADD and general anxiety not too long ago. At times I think these conditions certainly contribute to our sexual issues. I simply find the sex boring. I find my mind wandering, thinking of random chores, ideas, etc, other things to be doing. I don’t feel pleasure much, and it seems like it’s not worth the trouble sometimes.
I love my husband to death and do find him attractive. When we first started our relationship, the honeymoon phase was great. Sex several times a week. Now we’re lucky if it’s once a week. I do feel bad, I turn him down 2 to 3/week. He also doesn’t masterbate, so no relief there.
Even with different positions, switching things up, toys I don’t get that fire anymore.
Am I asexual, is this normal? I can’t feel obscenely guilty the rest of my days, while also depriving him of pleasure he loves.
Help!?