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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Salty_Journalist8054 on 2023-07-31 19:17:56.
My ex-friend Leanne(26f,) had a relationship with a married. She knew he was married and actively pursued this man. She knew he had a wife, in fact, we have mutual friends that are close to the wife. She 100% knew what she was doing. Over a year ago she and I got into a fight over the fact that she was sleeping with a married man. Our friendship ended that day and we hadn’t spoken in over a year. Most of our mutual friends ended their friendship with her. Leanne continued the relationship and got pregnant with his child.
Now, he has completely ended the affair with her and has made it clear he wants nothing to do with her son. From what I’ve heard from an acquaintance he has permanently moved to Dubai with his wife and daughter. I’m not sure if this is true, it’s just what I’ve heard. He has stopped giving Leanna funds and she will be evicted by the end of August. Her son is probably s few weeks old and she now has nowhere to go, unfortunately for her. I’m not sure what the situation is with her family or friends, but they’ve probably refused to take her in. I’m assuming this because I would probably be her last resort for help.
I also declined to take her in and told her this was her own fault. I told her could’ve easily avoided this situation and I told her exactly what would happen more than a year ago. Instead of listing to me, she started an unnecessary fight. I ended our phone conversation by saying you now have to deal with the consequences of your actions, and to never call me again. I told a friend what happened and she told me I was a bit of ass saying that to her, and that I went too far. I don’t really feel the same, she did far worse to me during our fight. AITA?