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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Crazypandathe20th on 2023-07-31 13:42:09.
A very good friend of mine has been accused of taking advantage of drunk girls and I don’t know what to believe. I’ve never seen this myself but this whole issue came up after he and another friend of ours had a falling out over a girl they both slept with. The guy who is making this accusation has a history of sleeping with other guy’s girlfriends, hook ups, and exes in the group and turning on them.
This whole ordeal started with when my friend hooked up with this girl who he met at a party. He wanted a relationship but she didn’t. The other guy (the accuser) slept with the same girl despite having a girlfriend. He promised her that she could move in with him because she has a bad home life or something. The crazy thing is he actually already has a girlfriend. My friend when he found out that this guy was sleeping with the girl he knew that he wanted a relationship with got upset and in revenge told the guy’s girlfriend about the whole thing. His girlfriend did not break up with him but actually ended up moving in with him ruining the other girl’s chance of moving in. This pissed the guy off and started the feud between him and my friend. As far as I’m aware no woman has come out with anything to say about him.
The guy who accused my friend also slept with another guy in the group’s fiancé resulting in their engagement being called off. Somehow him and this guy are still friends though. After my friend and the accuser had a fight the guy started saying that my friend sleeps with girls who are drunk and that’s the only way he gets laid and that he is pretty much a rapist. When I told him to report him to the police he said no but that he was gathering evidence against my friend. One claim he made is that my friend had pictures of me from Snapchat. Immediately I went to my friend and demanded he show me his phone and his computer none of which had any pictures of me or any other women. When I asked the accuser about this he said that Snapchat doesn’t notify you when someone saves a photo which I knew was a lie.
I’m not saying my friend is perfect but this whole things feels a bit farfetched but then again my friend is a bit of a player so a part of me really does wonder if there is some truth to this claim. I feel horrible because I want to know if I’ve been friends with a monster for all these years but I also don’t want to lose a friend to a false rumor. What should I do?