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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Sufficient_Neat_1409 on 2023-07-30 18:40:30.
I just got back from a week long vacation with my BF to visit his family. We both live in two different cities which are about 1-1.5hrs away by train. We landed in the airport which was 3hrs away from my place and 2hrs away from his at 8pm.
At the beginning of the week, he told me that when we get back home that I could stay at his place for the night since it’ll be late and the trains in my country can be super unreliable. However, in the middle of the week, he started asking me about which train I’ll get home when we land. I didn’t want to question it because I just thought he changed his mind since he seemed to have become drained being around his family and I felt rude trying to invite myself to his place.
We landed and when we got to the station he told me to buy the ticket to my city. I was honestly quite scared to make the journey since I had a heavy suitcase, it was so late at night, I was in a city I’d only ever been to once, and I had two connections in towns that I’d never been to before either. I ended up getting home at 12:30am and nearly missed one of the last connections due to delays that would have left me in the station overnight. Thankfully, one of my friends was able to pick me up at my city’s station and drove me home and they seemed to be really annoyed/angry at what my BF had done.
I don’t know if I’m just being dramatic but I just felt abandoned by him and that he doesn’t really care for my safety. I know I probably should have just asked if I could have stayed but I just felt so rude/awkward trying to force an invite when he had clearly changed his mind.
Am I being dramatic for being annoyed?