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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/SincerelySasquatch on 2023-07-30 11:32:13.

I don’t know where else to post this because I have found discussions of penis size are restricted in a lot of subs because it’s a sensitive topic for many men. I want to start by saying I’m not a size queen. But right now I’m with a partner who is the smallest man I’ve been with and it makes sex challenging. I feel like it’s extra challenging because I’m a bit fat so I have some padding at the entrance that takes up some of his length before penetration. I also know I’m not loose, I have a lot of control over my vaginal muscles and have an iron grip but that doesn’t seem to help, since if I use them it ejects him. He’s probably around 4" would be my guess, possibly slightly under. His dick is constantly slipping out. I feel like if I move at all it will slip out. So I can’t really participate in sex. And no matter what we do it just slips out a bunch anyway. I’m pretty frustrated. I love this guy, he’s great and it bums me out that we can’t enjoy sex because of something he has no control over.

It also sucks because I can tell he’s pretty good at sex. I’m finding myself enjoying kissing and foreplay much more than sex. Sex feels pointless. I’m at a point where I kind of want to tell him I don’t really want to have sex with him regularly but I know that would be a huge blow to him. This is not a deal breaker for me in our relationship because he’s an excellent kisser and great at foreplay, and he’s a great guy who treats me well.

I don’t know why I’m posting this, except I’ve never been in this situation before and I’m not sure what to do or how to process this. I’m not necessarily looking for advice, mostly support I guess? Just wanted to get my frustrations out? Has anyone been in this situation? How did you handle it?

Edit to clarify: I love this man. I love his dick and love giving him head. I hate how our sex is constantly interrupted by his penis slipping out and I hate not being able to move during sex.