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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/FreyaQueenOfCats on 2023-07-29 20:18:11.
Last night my husband and I celebrated our wedding anniversary. This morning he screamed insults at me, said he wanted nothing to do with me, and told me he was done with me.
Because I disagreed about new cabinets.
He takes anytime i disagree as an insult because his opinion is “factually correct” so he quickly became angry. I told him it’s ok to disagree, but he needs to do it respectfully.
He yelled he doesn’t have to respect bad decisions. It all escalated from there so here are some of the most egregious things.
He compared my cabinet choice to being so bad as to justify yelling just like, “you would if a loved one decided to smoke crack”
He said he wants nothing to do with me. He’s done with me. I don’t know how to think for myself. I need to start acting like an adult. That I treated him in such a fucked up way that I made him react like that. That I embarrassed him. That I treat him like shit, push his buttons to make him lose it so I can treat him like a villain.
He’s done this before, but I always tried to defend myself. So I would kinda blame myself for arguing back. But this time I never said a word while he unleashed all this on me.
I know I need to leave. I’m actually working on it. I just got a second job so I can start to build up funds.
Who knows, though, based on how much he seems to despise me maybe he’ll leave me sooner.