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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/fairytalelandscapes on 2023-07-29 14:02:21.
Throughout my whole life, I’ve never met a nice man. I’ve been called ugly many times by them. Not getting any help because I am not good looking enough, getting left out because I am not good looking enough.
I have even met men who told me that they would expect their further wife to work a full time job, come home to clean up the house, do the laundry and cook for them while they get to rest. Because this is reality and we women need to learn how to face it. Why can’t they just hire a maid???
Not too long ago, I matched with a guy on dating app and he has made me hate him and men so much.
To make it clear, we only met up once. he was never my boyfriend. We started playing ps4 really often, and one day he started controlling me. Expecting me to tell him in details on what I am doing everyday. If I don’t tell them, he gets angry. If I do something he doesn’t like, he gets angry too (eg. Downloading a new game on ps4 or eating chips) crazy right? I’m not a submissive person and I hate getting controlled by people, especially men.
Another guy I’ve matched with expected me to cook for him and deliver it to his home after our first date.
I’ve tried going on different dating apps but most men would only ask for hook ups. Why can’t they treat women nicely?
I do feel like I grow to hate men could be because of the environment that I was brought up in because my brother and dad are not a good example and also the people I’ve met in church.
I really don’t know what to and I do feel that something is wrong with me for hating men so much that I wouldn’t even want to date or even marry one