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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/toxic_concretegirl on 2023-07-28 16:02:52.

She’s 35, I’m 33.

So it’s a long story but I’ll try and keep it short, I’ve had a really really bad couple of years, from my boyfriend committing suicide and blaming me in his note, to working in healthcare in NYC during Covid, to starting over, trying to get my mental health in check. I ended up rage quitting a job impulsively (for the best) and posted a meme about it on instagram. This girl contacted me and was like I know what you’re going through. Over the next couple days she manipulated me into thinking we shouldn’t have waited all of these years to be close! i was living across the country at the time so I flew her out to where I was and gave her an amazing vacation. We also met a guy who sells ketamine, us both being Trauma survivors who had done treatments legally we decided to get some to do on a meditative hike on the beach. We had an amazing time together. And it was so healing (I was paying for everything) when a few red flags popped up I just thought she’s healing and is in a rough place.

Cut to me moving back East, and her still ordering the ketamine from this guy. With my money for the sake of “healing” she automatically starts calling herself a healer. And I found out she was stealing some of the ketamine to use with other “clients”

I’m leaving out a lot including her having no boundaries around my family, stirring drama and damaging property. My aunt and my mom told me flat out she was using me, but it was too painful to accept. I kept falling for her manipulation like an idiot, and she ended up stealing more for me. Also, I was getting a lot from the ketamine treatments we were doing.

Anyway I realized this was turning into an addiction and I stopped wanting to use it. She immediately turned on me, and suddenly this sisterhood we built was meaningless to her.

A week later she finds out I rented a beach house to prepare for my new job , and she brings this girl. Another “client” she was calling us her clients and acting like she was some healer. This woman had a 9 year old daughter they were using the drug around for “healing” purposes. I lost my shit and essentially contacted her dad and basically told him that she is scamming vulnerable women into thinking she is going to help “heal” them holistically when all she as doing was using us to get drugs. She also stole thousands of dollars from me by insisting she would pay me back. I get it. I was stupid. Desperate for a friend in a dark time in my life, so I don’t care about the money. I care about her continuing to take advantage of women like myself and that single mom. I got her one instagram she used as her “healer” site taken down, but I don’t know what else to do.

Also she has a history of opiate addiction, so I’m positive this is all purely to feed a new addiction to fill the void.