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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Glittering_Fudge_973 on 2023-07-28 13:38:02.
My sister (23f) invited me (19f) to her wedding happening in November.
She specifically called me to tell me how my hair color (I’ve been dying my hair green for the past 4 years) will be distracting there, and would take too much attention, and she asked me to dye my hair black/dark brown because it’s the natural hair color of both of us. I refused, and she told me then I can’t attend the wedding. I was okay with this. I told her I didn’t want to dye it such a dark color, because it’s hard to remove and dye it back green. If she wanted something natural I told her I would be okay with blonde because I can dye it back the next day, she said that wasn’t natural on me also, so I still won’t be allowed to attend. I didn’t understand this because multiple of the other guests have dyed hair, even our mom’s hair is dyed a dark purple color and she was fine with that.
My parents are angry at me for not having respect for my sister, and dying my hair in her favor, and my sister’s fiancé has been texting me saying the same thing.