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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Forward_Judgment_277 on 2023-07-28 02:45:31.
The three of us went to eat and see a movie. I told my friend before he ordered alcohol that I would not drive him home, or cover his uber again. He said he has it covered.
Fast forward to the end of the evening he asked if I could drive him and his girlfriend home. I declined, and reminded him that I said I was not going to drive or cover his uber again. He has a habit of doing this, and each time I cave.
Problem is he got pulled over, and now all of our friends, and family think I am the asshole because I left him knowing he was unfit to drive.
I explained this is not the first, second, or even third time he has pulled this. This shit happens nearly every time we go out and I cave each and every time. He said he was going to call an uber it was late and wanted to go home. I figured he had enough sense to not to try and drive home especially after he had enough sense to ask me for a ride.
Everyone thinks I was being petty for risking their lives and the lives of others because I did not want to take the time to drive them home. Mind you his apartment is in city, and I live in a different borough. He could have taken the bus or train not like public transportation is not a thing.
So am I the asshole?