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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/SpinningBetweenStars on 2023-07-28 04:31:41.
My friend group and I are all in our early 30s, some married, some dating.
Recently, multiple female friends have casually mentioned that they have boundaries with their male partners that neither of them have solo text exchanges with the opposite sex, nor do they hang out alone with the opposite sex.
Apparently I’m in the minority in our circle, in that I don’t care who my husband texts or hangs out with. He has female friends that he’s known for longer than we’ve been together, there’s no way that I’d demand to supervise their exchanges. I wouldn’t be with someone that I don’t explicitly trust.
Is this normal? I’ve been with my husband for over a decade, so I’m wondering if I’m just out of touch.