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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ExpensiveGrowth9744 on 2023-07-27 23:08:36.
I had some suspicions, not anything specific but it was more intuition that something was going on, and I admit I looked in my husband’s phone without him knowing. I found messages and calls between him and one of my friends. They began about 3 weeks back and everything I saw was innocent enough like how is your day, what did you do today, stuff like that, but it was behind my back. I had no idea they had exchanged phone numbers or friended each other on FB, much less that they were in contact with each other. I confronted him and I was very upset, and he told me it was just talking as friends at its nothing, and he can have friends. He told me I’m dramatic and toxic and that somehow my reaction to the situation (yelling, crying) is worse than talking to my friend behind my back. So he gave me the silent treatment. I can’t get a straight story out of either of them how this all came about, and even if they did try to explain I’m not sure I would believe either of them. I’m very insecure about cheating, my husband is the first relationship I’ve been in where I haven’t been cheated on, and I just feel betrayed all around. I just know the intentions weren’t good on either of their parts.