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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Over_Nebula on 2023-07-27 20:40:38.
Same old story, just matched with a guy, chatted for maybe 20 minutes. He owned a gym and had a bunch of videos of him working out. (On a verified account with 6k followers).
He asks to follow my private account, and since I’m careful not to post a lot of personal details, I sent him my handle and accepted his follow request. Less than 2 minutes later, I get a message from him you look nice but you need to work hard on yourself. I’m stunned, ask him to explain himself and he says you look bloated and need to lose weight. He started talking to me 20 minutes ago.
I just do not understand the audacity of commenting on a person’s perceived fitness in 20 minutes, expecting that to be a good idea. And then he has the audacity too add that you’re still cute don’t feel bad. I’m sure he is telling this story to his friends where he is the innocent victim giving well meaning advice while I’m the bitch who flipped out.
Am I overreacting? This Cannot be truthfully how someone thinks they should talk to someone they just met no?