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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/WeTheRealEgyptianz on 2023-07-27 14:03:37.
My (34f) boyfriend (25m) was recently told he has to go to out of state for a series of appointments as he has been having seizures. He asked I come with him as he is worried and needs someone. The problem is I have concert tickets booked out of state as well that I have had in place for a year. I barely be getting off time with my job so this is important for me from all the stress. I haven’t had “me time” in years between work and my kids. He intentionally scheduled during the time I’m supposed to be out of town when he had other dates he could have chosen that I would have gladly gone with him on. He has no job other than playing with stocks all day. I feel he did this as a way to be controlling and manipulative. Or am I overreaching?
He’s guilt tripping me now by saying if I cared for him I’d cancel my plans to be with him.