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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ridemygravybus on 2023-07-27 04:30:20.
I’m in my 30s.
I’ve never been in a relationship. Never been kissed, Nada, nothing
No one has ever seriously liked me, outside of this boy from 5th grade.
This male coworker told me today, “I don’t know how you are single”.
I would say that I’m average looking in the face-i think. I know I don’t meet beauty standards. I was heavily bullied in middle school. I was called a cow and ugly. This was primarily by white men, so honestly, I know that’s some of my problem. I’ve been surrounded by cultures that have different beauty standards.
Body-wise, i would say that men from my culture are pleased or i should say, would be pleased. I carry my weight well and honestly actively losing weight.
I feel like men just don’t like me romantically. I’ve been told that i give off “unavailable” vibes but when I ask what that means, no one tells me what I can do to change it. I’ve also been told that i give off motherly vibes as well. It would be a miraculous birth.
I just need general advice if you’ve met someone like me, what would you tell me to fix this? I really want a man in my life and want children. I also don’t actively enjoy being celibate. I want to be touched romantically.
I would like to preface, I’m not lonely. I just want a man lol and a good man. That might be my issue as well.
I don’t know, when my coworker said that, i just fell into a pit emotionally because i didn’t choose this.
Please don’t kill me. I am going to post this other places as well. Just to increase the chances of someone giving me some relief.