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Comment on I feel left out when not invited to some Christmas/NewYears parties, but when I do attend the ones that I am invited to, I can't wait to leave

Avg@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

If you keep saying no to invitations, people will stop inviting you. See if there is something you can do to enjoy going out a bit more, that should help you say yes more often.

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Mickey7@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
I never say NO when invited. If they are nice enough to ask I feel like I should go. But I get bored quickly. My fault Not their’s, and look for an early escape.

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- fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
  Unfortunately it’s a double edged sword. If you always leave early, hosts may think you don’t like coming, and stop inviting you, too. Especially if you leave before something that requires more people, like a planned game.
  
  For anyone who worries they’ll run into this, just make sure you’re really vocal about how much you appreciate the invite and all should be good in the world.
  
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