Scenario: you have ten kids. Would you rather 1 kid thrive 4 alright, 4 struggling to find food and one starving, or all 10 eat well?

The reason that kid is starving is directly tied to why the first 1 is thriving. It isn’t because there wasn’t enough food, it’s because the one thriving was taking the food from the rest, and throwing away a lot of it along the way, not caring at all about his siblings