I always wanted a wife I like the idea of marriage I just didn’t like my marriage and I feel unfulfilled because I didn’t have children. I’m talking to a few chicks right now to her not so serious but one is a little more serious than the other so who knows but I’ve always been a bit of an oddball on one hand I’m a right wing populist and a deplorable Trump supporter but on the other hand I love wine over beer and I enjoy opera and theater and singing and I love romancing woman but on the other handI’m really interested in owning guns and I feel moral obligation two red pill people and sorry for all the typos I’m using voice command
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Scruffy_Nerfherder@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
Granted I am in a much different place then a lot of people, but why date? It was different when you stood a chance of finding a 'normal' woman.
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You're not going to find anything close to normal online. 2a) Guaranteed to be a waste of time and money unless you are in the top 10% of guys. 2b) If you are in the top 10% of guys, the date is guaranteed to inch you further down the road to hell.
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You're better off lifting weights.
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Who cares what women want. (They want to be miserable - let them)
This was a woman centric article because dating is a scam for men. ALL forms of dating are scams for men.
I have 3 sons and I have put a lot of thought into dating and marriage. What I keep coming back to is, don't go looking for it. Focus on yourself. Focus on God, and your career. The right woman will come to you or not.
What I tell my middle son all the time is, 'Be wall.' You can show emotion and grow a closer connection later in the relationship, first she has to respect you.
Anyway, dating from a guy's perspective - don't.
wigglehard@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
Scruffy_Nerfherder@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
I've been married not quite 30 years. With all the people I've known I've maybe seen 1 or 2 good marriages.
My marriage is on the better end of things but I cringe at the thought of where we've been.
I feel you with the need to be loved, that has tripped me up my whole life. I've never found it In a relationship with my wife or friend.
For me, it's always come from God. Once I began to get that relationship straightened out, all of my other relationships fell in line.
I applaud your weirdness. Keep being you man!
Keep wiggling!
wigglehard@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
The problem i fave is two fold in finding chicks, one i work nights so my day time social hours are spent sleeping or shit posting. Two i have major trust issues, see i have a big schwang but i want a woman to actually love me and not just be dick hungry or dickmotized. Im taking a slow let me get to know you approach from here on out with chicks. I fucked a good amount of women in my day (some while i was with my ex-wife) im not interested in just fucking hoes, ( ok maybe one revenge fuck ) but i really just want a good christian girl that is loyal and loves me that we wait until after marriage until i pull out schwang daddy wiggle
Scruffy_Nerfherder@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
Good luck with all that.
masterofballs@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
BUT, I would tell your sons that girls chasing men are of lower quality than the ones you yourself could be chasing.
So if you aren't looking and try to settle for the girl who is that might not be ideal.
Learning to ask girls out in public is a great skill though.
Online dating is best for white men and Asian women. And within that women who aren't fat and men who aren't short. They get the most responses.
If you aren't in those categories you might find better partners just out in public.
Scruffy_Nerfherder@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
Good points. Fortunately my sons are on the tall side Didn't think about the girls that chase being of lower quality...
wigglehard@wolfballs.com 2 years ago
I had a hard life and there are many times where I was homeless for different reasons and I guess because my parents got divorcedI want a successful marriage and not one like them and I want to be loved but then again who doesn’t, I think All people want to feel love On some sort of level even the anger driven leftist