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I would have reminded you of the power imbalance that might be there, but since you are sensitive enough, I would say you are fine. Just make sure she absolutely knows it is fine if she says no, and that you have another dispensery you can go to for a while if she says no, just to make things not awkward. Otherwise, go for it! You cannot always meet people you like at a bar or whatever people do these days.

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ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Yeah, that’s my main worry. Putting her in a awkward position. I’m fine with her saying no and it wouldn’t be awkward for me afterwards, just don’t wanna come over like a prick to her

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artemisRiverborne@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Ya, I agree. If she says no (hopefully she won’t tho) make sure to give that dispensary a bit of a break, to let things cool down.

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ValiantDust@feddit.de ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

and that you have another dispensery you can go to for a while if she says no

This is an important point. When asking someone out, they should have the ability to escape the situation, if they want to. Both in the actual moment of being asked out and in the greater scheme of things. She can’t really escape, if she has to serve you as a customer.

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