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Xantar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month agoI’m not having a hard time
Allow me to disagree, you’re obviously distressed and frustrated. I wouldn’t like to be stalked either.
Why tf are you following me? And majority of men are
How would I know, I’m not following you, so :shrug:
deadgirlwalking@thelemmy.club 1 month ago
Then hush up, you’re not a woman or the stalker. You wouldn’t know. Let’s just hope it never happens to you or maybe it will and you’ll have a different view then. That’s how it usually is, some people need to feel to hear.
Xantar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
I don’t need to feel the rape of my closest friend for it to affect me deeply even when it had happened so long before we met. So I’ll call pass on your hasty judgment, thank you very much.
I could try to imagine why someone would stalk, but you’d probably say I’m finding them an excuse, so I’ll also pass on trying.
And this is how you lose the sympathy and protection of those who could help you against creeps.
deadgirlwalking@thelemmy.club 1 month ago
As if men actually would help, the amount of times I’ve seen women get hit and men would just stand there or walk away. It happened to your friend and you still can’t understand, sheesh they need a new friend asap
Xantar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
On the contrary, they needed a friend to confide in more than anything. And it helped.
Xantar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
There comes a point in your trauma where you feel you only have the option to dig deeper in being aggressive because otherwise you’d feel all that fighting was for nothing and you’d lose control.
Don’t let that feeling blind you and justify acting like a piece of human garbage for your own sake, that’s probably how the monsters you hate justify their own behaviours.