Comment on How does a SO feel different from a very good friend?
SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 10 months agoFirst goal is finding friends. This sounds like a joke but I’m serious don’t force a relationship. Meet people, get friends. If you align, you align. If not, you’ve made a friend. If not, you’ve learned what you don’t like or learned what others don’t like.
Make friends. Make a best friend. Then if a relationship blooms, at least it wasn’t forced. You met and found out what you liked before hand.
itscozydownhere@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Yeah. But it happened me a couple of times that I fell in love at first sight before even getting to know the person. Then I loved the person too. Maybe it won’t last. But sometimes it’s just pure chemistry in our brain. Never force a relationship of course. And love can blossom with time. But if you stay with a person and it just feels like a close friend, you are probably not in love. And should move on.
SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Been there in both instances. Live and learn!