I’ve answered the defederation part in my other comment. We are not associated with lemmygrad or hexbear, however some of their users exploit the open philosophy to run their alts here - they can use one login here to see both hexbear and lemmy.world. However, they have to behave themselves and can’t get away with the shit they do behind the corrupt mods of hexbear.

Which is exactly what I don’t want to see here. Lemmee is full of them. Eastern shills with a different nick but same ideas.

Mate you clearly haven’t been paying attention, or you’ve just not been here long. lemmy.world has had far bigger problems with loading times and other things than lemm.ee. When that happened, /u/sunaurus was front and centre telling them how to fix things. When they got hacked or when they got DDOSed, /u/sunaurus was stepping up and helping them - while his instance was completely immune to the problems, thanks to his personal innovation and attention to detail. He has also directly contributed to the core lemmy codebase, improving things for all other instances.

This comparison was purely based on how they solved their problems. Not how they gained them. Also lemmee was never as popular as world and you can’t blame them for not keeping up during the mass migration. Tbh what’s the point of hypothetical DDoSing of lemmee… I don’t know. But we all understand that world is a bigger target.

Yes, lemm.ee had a few problems that came about with v0.19. lemmy.world did not face these problems, because lemmy.world had already applied excessive server resources to their instance; lemm.ee had been built with efficient code allowing more lean infrastructure. v0.19 screwed that up by introducing bugs, and /u/sunaurus’ response was to not only fix that in code but switch to beefier infrastructure. Right now, as I understand it, we are back in the lead in being both beefier and more efficient than lemmy.world (at least on a per user metric).

So efficient that sunaurus disappeared from public when shit hit the fan with literally an infrastructure of a Lego bridge.

The only one giving off bad energy here is you. You want to bitch about something, but you can’t accept that the things you’re bitching about aren’t actually that valid. You don’t want to go to other instances, because you have even more things to bitch about there. It feels like there’s no pleasing you.

I have full right to bitch and give feedback. However lemmee is as dull and negative as one can imagine. In my case, this is not the instance for me, and thank God I realized this sooner rather than later. See ya suckers 👋🏻 maybe reddit was not that bad as you people advertised 😅