I don’t wanna sound like I’m taking from the work of being a mom. But you can have Bone fractures and Migraines more painful than giving birth. Some Migraines can be Anerusims popping or about to pop. One of those killed my father it popped when he had a bike accident. I had one migraine thay sent some sort of shock though my entire nervous system and took me a week to recover they checked me for aneurisms too but found nothing. Spent years in a psicologyst treating frustration amd bottled up feelings.