A lot of people have this problem and the answer is always the same: find like-minded people.

I used to play pretty hardcore, these days I’m just like you. But I always would ran into a guild or two that was doing things fairly oddly, slowly, to their own drum.

Either create a guild, if you’ve got that kind of ability, or, take some time to ask around and look for one and start on their server.

There is always a need for this kind of thing, you just have to find it.