You see, I am an actual incel, I’d like to be in relations, have deep emotional connection, intimacy, sex, and some actual responsibilities in life to make me less of husk of a human, but I am a sore loser, so it’ll never change. So I’d probably happily downvote your post, but for better or worse I am on instance that doesn’t allow downvoting at all, and I still feel it is kinda waow based, so I won’t jump to another one just for you. Sorry for not fulfilling your desire, no downvote from me.

Don’t know anything about original point of downvoting legit posts, can’t help with this too.