Community and Daoism. Being with loved ones and reading the Zhuangzi, basically.

The Zhuabgzi spends a lot of time talking about the inevitability of change in a way I found amusing, easy to understand and profound without being mystic. It also has a bunch of odd tales that encourage thinking about things beyond the human time scale, which i found oddly comforting. Kinda like the disassociation of booze/drugs, but less unhealthy.