Yeah, I think wishy washy “too caregul” language is annoying to everyone involved i the conversation.

I don’t remember the context or the exact question, but I do remember saying at some point, on the topic of gender and sexuality, something along the lines of “I was born with a penis, I like it that way, and I enjoy inserting it into opposite genitalia”. I found that to be the easiest way of clarification. To my defense, this was before I learned what “cisgendered meant” and I just wanted to make sure there was no ambiguity.