I am that relative, so for me it’s 0 steps.

A couple of my relatives have very curly hair and don’t have to worry as much about how it looks, so i think we’re predisposed to that.

If you come from a culture that does certain hair shaping techniques, then you’re gonna have a bunch of ancestors who didn’t have to worry how their hair looked. Also i guess there are families where all the men shave their head. Seems like a common thing for eastern europeans nowadays.