Not op, but the world isn’t black and white. I definitely know people like they are describing. Perfectly healthy, mentally and physically, yet neet and unapologetic.

One guy actually recently got a job and a wife and an apartments, so good on him. Though he still struggles because his wife is neet, though she claims a dubious disability.

I also know some people as you describe, with different actual disabilities, and neet. It’s sad, but that’s life.

There’s a lot of people in the world, and they exist all over the spectrum.