I’m ADHD with a couple other neurospicy crap and I struggle with a lot of things. One of them is misinterpreting language on top of being dyslexic.

Ah, maybe that’s what happened then. Or maybe I suck at writing. What I tried to say was:

1. I now understand that you love them as a person.

2. I am happy that you love them as a person.

3. Your first comment made it sound like you wouldn’t love them as a person.

4. Your first comment made it sound like you would love them thanks to their disability.

5. Loving someone thanks to their disability is gross.

6. I was right to write my first comment the way I did because your first comment made you sound gross.

I’m glad to agree wholeheartedly with you, and I apologise for the confusion and distress. I am also autistic, but that’s no excuse for me writing unclearly or misgendering. Thank you for being patient with me.