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basxto@discuss.tchncs.de â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠agoI more had âonly/exclusivelyâ vs âmostly/usuallyâ in mind. But yes. There is also the question of whether its about gender or sex; homo-hetero being viewed as âsame-oppositeâ vs âsame-differentâ; what you wanna do with them ⌠sex, relationship or both. Some think samesex intercourse is fine as long as you donât want a relationship . And what even does attraction mean.
Kuma@lemmy.world â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I see it as different things, you can fall for one gender, you can feel sexual attractive for another but most of the time do they sync. So that made also sense why some had crushes on the gender they wouldnât be together with.
It all clicked when I got to know a girl who could fall in love with men and women but couldnât enjoy having sex with guys even tho she tried to really liked it with the guys she fell for. And that also made me understand what pan really was because I thought it was just bi with extra steps but when gender identity, gender romance and gender sexually was all different things then it all made sense.