Personality and the person matters. Not much else out side of the basics of physical attraction.

• Be a good person
• Be good to your partner
• Be good to others
• LISTEN
• Try to be fun to be around, meaning don’t be a dick downer all the time
• Take interest in your partner and their wants/needs

None of that stuff requires you be tall, have a big dick, or tons of money. If that’s all someone wants from you, you do not want to be with that person.