Comment on Aww does someone have a sensitive li'l bummy wummy? 🧻

• Grail@multiverse.soulism.net ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Anyway, Makeshift was asking if it was a guy thing, so if bidets were popular with non-op trans women, that would still mean it wasn’t. Ditto for enbies like Myself, regardless of anatomy.

  I think there’s a lot of social value in being intentionally literal in these kinds of situations, when we don’t want to allow two terms such as sex and gender to be conflated. Remember that your ability to understand others is within your control, and you must therefore use it responsibly. There are times when you can choose to understand someone, but that doesn’t mean you should.

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